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关于婚姻

Marriage is never easy. Each stage brings its own challenges. Just like regular health checkups or car maintenance, marriage also needs intentional review and care. Without it, problems may grow unnoticed until they reach a "terminal stage".

In this regard, the church should do two things: first, provide thorough premarital counseling; and second, build a marriage support network - where every couple can find trusted friends for regular counseling and also learn to become mentors for others.

婚姻不容易。不同阶段有不同的挑战。就像定期的健康体检或汽车保养一样,婚姻也需要有明确的回顾与维护。若从不检查,一旦出了问题,就可能陷入“晚期绝症”的状态。在婚姻方面,教会应当做两件事:一是提供完整的婚前辅导;二是搭建一个婚姻守望平台——让每一对夫妻都能找到值得信任的夫妻朋友,进行定期的婚姻辅导,同时也学习成为他人的婚姻辅导者。